Be your own man:

The biggest drawback about us humans is that we are too bloody concerned about others. Yes you don’t need to bother what the other person is doing. Who the other person is seeing, what is his aim? - How does he deserve his social status? Yes you don’t need to worry about that.

Please keep your head down and do your job. Do whatever you feel, however you feel- if you are any good you will have friends, family and all the rest. Bottom line is- if we really want to be in touch with someone we will. Sometimes it is just not possible. Too much of commitments at work and life- sometimes people get left out.

You should not go by the present. Yes your son did not get a chance to call. That doesn’t mean he does not care. It means that he is busy wrapping up something’s so that he can talk in peace sometime later. Is it really so hard to understand?

If parents can’t trust the judgment of their children, that is because somewhere inside they don’t trust their own judgment. Only so long you can keep correcting someone, feel concerned for someone. Then there comes a day when you got to let go and trust your own. Let them be their own man!

So far none of the Bengali parents have tried to find out when that day is? What that day means? If we want a progressive society- we got to let go of our hypocrite at home.